I’ve got to start this muse off with a bit of a brag. It’s almost Thanksgiving, and guess what I did this year?
I put my turkey in the fridge to thaw…IN TIME FOR IT TO ACTUALLY THAW.
*and the crowd goes wild*
Please, you’re embarrassing me with your applause. I’m just an ordinary woman who found herself in an extraordinary situation. I’d like to think most people would do the same in my shoes.
I think this is the first year I don’t have to give the turkey one final spa day in the tub before I cram it full of bread and partially incinerate it in the name of tradition. Maybe I’m getting the hang of this “adult” thing?
…well. *sniff* You didn’t have to guffaw so loudly.
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving, and long time readers will know I love me some Thanksgiving.
I’m seeing a lot of “Friendsgiving” stuff going around, and while I don’t oppose it, I guess I don’t really understand the point. Are you not thankful for your friends? Is it mandatory that it’s “Thanksgiving” only when you’re with family?
“Bethie, Thanksgiving celebrates a time when white settlers began their destruction of a Native population.”
Noooo, Thanksgiving celebrates a time when the native people welcomed immigrants with open arms. What happened after was horrible. But the event itself was an amazing attempt at unifying two completely different sets of peoples. The immigrants being unwilling and unable to assimilate afterwards isn’t because of Thanksgiving, and by erasing Thanksgiving to assuage our ancestral guilt, we’re not only changing the historical narrative, but we’re completely ignoring the people who offered the olive branch we later snapped.
We SHOULD remember the time when our ancestors were welcomed and assisted, because what the worlds needs desperately is truth and honesty and kindness. Our ancestors came. They were starving. The owners of the land not only allowed the new settlers to try and make a life here, but they held a massive peace dinner to try and build friendships and secure future trading.
The event itself most definitely IS something to celebrate. That was a completely awesome thing for the native people of this land to do. And yes, it DOES make our ancestors even bigger assholes for what happened in the following years. So? Why should we forget that? To make ourselves feel better? How about we celebrate it and give the native people their due? FINALLY give them our gratitude?
Bah. I’m just a 40 year old white lady in New Hampshire. What the hell do I know? Maybe I’m way off the mark. If I am, though, it’s not from a place of malice. I legitimately do not understand why celebrating the idea of communities coming together to feast as friends is a bad thing.
I’mma keep celebrating Thanksgiving. Maybe my view will change down the road. Maybe society will change without me. I can’t say what’s going to happen later as I learn and grow and gain new perspectives. What I can say, though, is that this year, I’m eating my turkey and pie with the people I’m most thankful to have in my life because that’s what the holiday means to me.
That’s for tomorrow. I’ve got one more hell day at work. A short shift, but that in some ways is worse. At least in a longer shift, I’d have time to get it all done. I work in a bakery. At the holidays. And we’re understaffed.
Yeah. I definitely deserve pie tomorrow.
I had a woman ask me how stuffing bread works. She honestly said, “This is stuffing bread, right?” Yes ma’am, sure is. “So…how does it work?”
…um…you stuff it in the hole…
I had a man ask me if pumpkin pie and pumpkin bread were the same thing. His wife wanted him to get pumpkin bread, but we were out. “Do you think she could just use a pie instead?”
No. No, sir, I do not.
Another man got heated because we didn’t have plain custard pies. Of course not. It’s not 1867. Catch up with the times, gramps. I’ve actually gotten that request before at the holidays. Maybe it’s the same guy? I can’t believe there’s more than a handful of people out there who want plain custard pie. Coconut, sure. But just giggly sugar egg glop on dry ass crust? Ew.
We had snow yesterday. It snowed fairly heavily all day, but didn’t actually accumulate. It was very odd. Still, the fear of slick roads was enough to keep some shoppers away. I’m guessing that today’s shift is going to be flat out balls to the wall cake slingin’. Then rush to get out on time and pick up Teen Beta from school, rush home to get to the bank before they close, rush to get back out to the store to grab what I know I’m going to forget… It’s going to be a hectic day.
But right now, it’s the calm before the storm. I’ve actually got this wicked tasty coffee I picked up on sale that doesn’t acid wash my throat on the way down. The kiddies are still sleeping before they rise to face their busy day. The cat is sleeping next to me on my computer desk and I’ve got the dulcet tones of Atreyu playing in my headphones.
You know what I feel like doing? I think we need a….
* * * THANKSGIVING HEADLINE EXTRAVAGANZA!!!! * * *
Okay, so I made it sound like a spur of the moment thing, but I’ve actually been collecting headlines for about a month now. That means I’ve had a month to gather only the tastiest, choice cuts for you on this holiday eve.
For any newbs who aren’t in the know, I like to dive into the tragic state that is our modern media and find headlines that jump out at me. Some are poorly worded, some are plain stupid, and some just conjure an image or emotion that I feel compelled to share. I gather the drippings, add a bit of starchy sass, and ladle them all over your plate. As always, the headlines are completely natural. I just add up to a 10.8 % salt solution to make them extra juicy.
Shall we begin?
– Marijuana Becomes Legal In Canada
Health care for all. Low cost secondary education. Justin Trudeau. Now legal weed. Guys, I think Canada’s making a pass at me.
– Person Claims Ricin Was In Letter Sent to Susan Collins At Home
…just a person. Some rando decided maybe it could have been a thing. Ace reporting, AP.
– Stephen Hawking’s Final Book: ‘There Is No God’
That was pretty much in every Stephen Hawking book. Anyone who is shocked by this has absolutely no idea who Hawking was and what he did.
– Elementary School Teacher Accused of Having Wine In Classroom
Yeah, sure, I get that it’s wrong. But shit. Have you ever spent the day in an elementary school classroom as an adult?
– Man Creates and Sells Earrings, Pencil Holders, and Other Things Out of Taxidermy Animals
The picture with the article is of the dude wearing mouse heads as earrings.
– Mass AG Has Serious…
I’m sorry, but I can’t move on yet. Did you hear what I said? MOUSE. HEAD. EARRINGS. Not plastic, not faux fur. These are real mouse heads that he stuffed. This psycho looked at two dead mice and said, “Move over, Prada. I’m about to take the fashion accessory game to a whole new level!” What. The. Fuck.
*shudder* Okay. I’m good now.
– Mass AG Has Serious Concerns About Columbia Gas Reconstruction
Geez. You blow up 30 homes ONE TIME and suddenly EVERYthing you do is under a microscope.
– Toddlers Are Worried About Monsters
Today’s headline from the No Shit Gazette.
– Why False Narratives About Mail Bombs and the Migrant Caravan Won’t Go Away
Because our president keeps making shit up and Twitter-bombing his easily manipulated constituents. #FACT
– CIA Director Briefs President on Khashoggi Audio
Yeah, but it’s not going to matter. Not at all. See above post for further clarification. #SAD FACT
– ‘Inappropriate on So Many Levels’- Parents Outraged After Drag Queen Speaks At Career Day
It’s “inappropriate” to have an actress speak to children about the dangers of bullying? Because that’s exactly what happened. A grown adult who has a career that hurts no one read a book passage to children about the dangers of bullying, then answered questions on how to handle bullies. That’s it. That’s all that happened. And parents are “outraged?” Oh grow up.
– Moose Trips, Falls on New Ipswich Road
That’s the latest from my neck of the woods. Never a dull moment in NH.
– ‘Whites Don’t Shoot Whites’: What One Man Says Kroger Shooter Told Him
The amount of fortitude it must have taken to not prove that racist asshole wrong…
– Fox News Guest Likens Bombs to ‘Harassment’ GOP Faces In Public
The guy legit said that receiving a bomb is on the same level as someone telling a senator he is a poopy head while the senator is out at a restaurant. *tents fingers in front of mouth* *considers how much money I can contribute to Mars mission to help speed up the evacuation from this doomed planet* *realizes $4.17 probably won’t do very much* *feels a surprising kinship with the kindergarten teacher wino*
– Giant Industrial Spool Rolls Down Highway As Cars Try to Dodge It
Yes, but did they get the gold coins and the power up cube while doing it? They’ll never get the high score if not. #ProTips
– Pipe Bomb Scare Raises New Questions About Mail Safety
I mean, they were all sent through the regular ordinary mail, sooo….uh…yeah. It would raise questions, wouldn’t it?
– Amid Sex Abuse Crisis, Pope Francis Calls on US Bishops To Gather For Retreat
Yeah, retreat. Retreat the fuck outta here and don’t bother coming back. This “sex abuse crisis” is only a “crisis” to them now that they’ve been caught. They STILL don’t consider the lifelong crises of the victims. It’s STILL all about the priests and the church. And I say this as someone raised Catholic around many very nice people who were both clergy and active members. There are good people in ANY organization. But, in this particular one, the “good” people have been complicit for far too long and it needs to stop.
– Folks in Rural Panhandle Ask ‘Where’s The Help?’
Your president gave it to rich people because you’re poor and he thinks you have cooties and are gross.
– Virgin Orbit Mates Rocket to Jet For Airborne Launch System
This one’s only here because my inner 12 year old self giggled.
– Australia’s First Gay Penguin Couple Hatch Historic Baby Chick
There is legit outrage with this story. You know what people don’t have anymore? Hobbies. Everyone just needs a hobby. Go find something to do that makes you happy and your bored ass self won’t be blasting hate across the internet about goddamn biology.
– Cop Finds Niche Writing Tickets for Taking Handicapped Parking Spaces
This is in “Good News”. This is what passes for good news. This isn’t just the bottom of the barrel, it’s under the damn thing.
– Winners and Losers From Red Sox’s World Series Win
The winners would be the Red Sox, the losers would be the Dodgers. Do…do you not know how sports work, MSN?
– Ky. Father Apologizes For Dressing Son As Hitler For Halloween
As ya do.
– He Moved To A Jungle In India To Escape His Giant Student Debt
As a parent dealing with the shady trickery of the US federal student loan program, I can personally attest to this being a very reasonable reaction. Good luck in your new life, man.
– China Reverses Tiger and Rhino Products Ban
No. No no no no. NO. Why are we going backwards in every fucking aspect of life right now!?!?
– Scientists Count Whales From Space
…gettin’ a bit bored on the space station, are they?
– Cockroaches Use Karate to Keep Themselves From Being Turned Into Zombies
What else do you expect them to do? They can’t exactly fit a glock in their holster, now can they?
– Reese Witherspoon No Longer A Blonde
EVERYBODY REMAIN CALM. THERE IS NO NEED TO PANIC. EVERYBODY. REMAIN. CALM. We’ll get through this.
– Putin To Resurrect The Soviet Super Chicken
Mother of god. So many wonderful mental images…
– Why Cranberries Are Being Dumped This Harvest
Because some tart little homewreckin’ kumquat showed up and suddenly cranberries just aren’t good enough anymore.
*sidenote*- ‘tart little kumquat’ sounds so much dirtier than I intended. I’m letting it stand, though, because I’m very immature.
– Titans S Kevin Byard Has Wanted ‘Piece’ of Rob Gronkowski Since Offseason
No judging. Everyone wants a piece of Gronk’s ‘tight end’. *nudge**nudge* Know what I mean? *wink**wink* Say no more.
…it’s very hard to climb out of the gutter once I’m in there. You understand.
– The Curse of the Honeycrisp Apple
The moon hung low in the sky, casting a light glow over the dewdrops that clung to the grass. A lonely tree frog cheeped, calling out for a mate in the late summer night. A firefly dodged out of the path of a bat just in the nick of time, watched by a field mouse as she chomped on the bud of sweet clover. All seemed well in the orchard.
But all was not well, for up the lane, the Honeycrisps seethed with rage, plotting their revenge.
– Lowell Community Health Center Confirms Case of Measles
Hey morons…VACCINATE YOUR KIDS.
– Marcon Rubs Trump’s Knee, Makes President Uncomfortable
Guys, the picture. Trump was absolutely disgusted by another man touching his knee. I love this so much. I think every single leader of every other nation should make it a point to touch Trump’s knee. Let’s make this a thing. #TouchTrump’sKnee
– Trump Cancels WWI Memorial Trip Due To Rain
He was casually TOUCHED by another MAN. How can you expect him to ever function again?
– Veteran and Service Dog Are Perfect 6-Legged Team
“6-Legged Team?” What an odd way to put it.
– Dyson Might Design An Air Purifier That Also Works As Headphones
But why tho?
– What an ‘Octopus Census’ Near Seattle Found
My guess is that they discovered octopi are very bad at returning paperwork.
– Do Zombie Shows Lead To Mass Shootings? Kentucky’s Governor Thinks So
Oh. Oh honey child no.
– Texas Mulls Curriculum That Cuts Helen Keller, Keeps Moses
If you look into the reasoning behind cutting Helen Keller, there can actually be a case made. As every day passes, more happens. History grows, but class time does not. There’s got to be a cut off and weeding out, and that will mean some hard choices. So, there’s a reasonable explanation for Helen Keller being on the educational chopping block. But keeping Moses? FUCKING MOSES? WHY is Moses in a public school history book in the first place??
– There’s An Asteroid Heading For Us. How Do We Save Earth?
Have everyone point their fans toward the sky.
– There’s An Asteroid Heading For Us. How Do We Save Earth?
Two words: Bubble. Wrap.
– There’s An Asteroid Heading For Us. How Do We Save Earth?
Okay, so we get a huge magnet and send it into orbit to attract all the debris we’ve got floating around up there and pull it together to create a giant shield.
– There’s An Asteroid Heading For Us. How Do We Save Earth?
If we can link every rubber band on earth together…
“Um, Bethie? Are we just going to do this for the rest of the day?”
…you know I could.
“Could vs. should, man.”
Fair enough. But the rubber band idea would totally work.
“I’m sure it would.”
– U.S. Navy May Face Questions Over Norwegian Frigate Collision
Our enormous ship smacked right into their large, easily visible frigate. Questions do seem likely.
– Man Shoots Buck With 2 Heads
I’d have used bullets, but that’s just me.
– This Kid Fights Hunger and Homelessness- – At Age 4
Nope. His parents have him with them when THEY fight hunger and homelessness. Not saying that’s a bad thing at all, but my fucking ASS it’s the kid’s decision.
– Governor: Official Who Said Whites Are ‘Master Race’ Must Go
I would thoroughly agree…if that’s what the he said. But, he didn’t. The guy has a documented history of making fun of his own gap in his teeth. While being addressed by a town planner who also had a gap in her teeth, he pointed out that they both had gaps and told her that made HER part of the “master race,” to which she laughed. It wasn’t about color. It was a stupid way to word it, but there’s video, folks, and if you just take a second to watch it, you’ll get the context. He did NOT say that “whites” are the master race. He was saying that people with gaps in their teeth are the master race. Did he show epic levels of stupidity? Yes. Should he have said it given that phrase’s history? No. Was he being racist? No. Not all dipshits are racist. Sometimes they’re just standard, equal opportunity dipshits.
– Talented Dog Skateboards Outside the Emirates Stadium
He couldn’t even pull off a 360 inward double heelflip. “Talented?” I think not.
– Will Our Smart Devices Become A Massive Surveillance Network?
Hang on and I’ll ask my TV remote…
– Viral Story About ‘Drunk’ Raccoons Takes Sad Turn
Everybody laughed at the antics, but nobody thought to take the keys. RIP.
– Senator Apologizes For ‘Public Hanging’ Comment, Says Words Were ‘Twisted’
She was speaking about a particular cattle rancher and said, “If he invited me to a public hanging, I’d be on the front row.” Her excuse is that people blew it out of proportion, that she meant no ill will, and it was “an exaggerated expression of regard.” How does that make it any better? The problem isn’t that your mind went there without malice, it’s that your mind went there at all.
– Hundreds Flock To Massachusetts Marijuana Stores on Opening Day
Yeaaah, buuuut…Trudeau. I think I still have to stick with Canada.
– Trump Pardons Saudi Prince for Khashoggi Murder
Wrong turkey, dickhead.
– Mystery Santa Pays Off All Lay-aways At A Walmart
Now this one really IS feel good news! I would love to be rich enough to do something like that some day. That’s got to be an amazing feeling.
– How To Shave 1,200 Calories Off Your Thanksgiving Meal
Talk politics right after hors d’oeuvres and get yourself kicked out before the main course.
– How To Feel Good After An Indulgent Thanksgiving
Realize that you are likely to only eat about 80 Thanksgiving dinners in your short existence on this planet, and because of this, thoroughly enjoying each and savoring every one should never be a point of guilt. It doesn’t make you a piece of shit to eat some pie on a holiday.
Thus concludes a gobbly Musing for Wednesday, November 21, 2018. May your turkeys be juicy, may your pies be sweet, and may you have a safe and happy holiday!